I’m always asked what can I do after break up while still in love with him. My answer has always been this, what do you want to do?
Ok, I know that is not the answer you’ve expected but it’s strange that someone you used to love so much, the one you gave everything, turns out to be the one hurts you the most. As they say, “love is a pain” there is always a price for it. It is easy when you aren’t in pain to accept that love is the pain but when you are in love with someone who can’t give you back.
Can you imagine all that touch… maybe those flowers… all that I love You… all those candles and all the romance, they are all gone in vain, that’s really bad. What can you do?
Calling your ex-boyfriend is not the best advice. Asking for forgiveness to go back is even worse. What can you do?
First, you have to understand that love is nothing but a state of mind. It’s how you feel about the other person. When you change that feeling, there is no love. DO you understand?
Let me explain it to you for a minute,
Just think about it, before you knew your ex-boyfriend you didn’t feel anything about him. Even if I was to describe him to you that would not make you feel him they way you do now… Do you know why?
Because when you are in a relationship with someone you build emotional response, which is conditioned, in your neurology. The more you stay together (I mean in a romantic way) the more you hardwire those neuron pathways in your brain and that means you build more emotion response (love)
So when you break up with your ex-boyfriend there is already built a very strong emotional attachment that makes you feel the way you do right now. If there is no way of getting back together then there is a big problem in a way you process your thoughts. This is the reason why you can’t do your work properly, you will start to become self couscous (due to emotional imbalance) about your looks, how you do things and your overall behavior.
The only way to get over this is to change the way you process this emotional response. I mean how you feel about your ex-boyfriend. Let me explain
Take any book you can find around, hold it while looking at the front cover then turn it around and then look at it from the back, then from the sides. One thing you will find is that the book will look very different depending on which side you are looking at. The book is the same but the way you look at it will change its appearance.
Thought I’m not trying to compare your ex-boyfriend with a book but the point I want to make here is this, when you change the way you feel about your ex-boyfriend, you won’t be affected by the fact that he is not with you anymore.
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