This is the first question I ask everyone who come to my office for the consultation.
It amazes me, to see how many people are taken by this, that, they have to spend years suffering in a bad relationship and finally after they get the nerve to leave, they spend months trying to get over their pain.
I don’t know about you, but to me, that sounds ridiculous, spending weeks after weeks crying for someone who doesn’t even exist in your life anymore.
Now, talking about existence, here you have to understand that people, event and just about anything in your life exist in your mind. What I mean here is this, people you meet. (Including your relatives and friends) are representations of images in your brain. So when you remember someone (like a long forgotten friend) you actually trigger some memories (those pictures) in your brain.
This also includes all happiness, love, hurt and all the emotions you ever experienced (good or bad). So the point I want to make here is this, you have to stop triggering those bad memories in your mind.
This is the only way you will stop suffering from break up. You will understand this later at the end of this article.
You see, your friends (and all other articles on the internet) will tell you it takes some time to heal or it’s normal to feel that way. I believe that those people don’t know a better way and they have no clue that there is a way to forget your ex quickly, that’s why they give you that same advice.
These people or your friends who tell you this, are not suffering or don’t have a clue about how it feels to be in this situation.
It doesn’t kick in when someone tells me to wait in pain. Even though I know I’ll heal eventually, it just doesn’t make sense.
If I were you I would need an immediate help, wouldn’t you? We live in the world of now; we want to have our solution solved yesterday.
We won’t have everything being provided to us immediately, that’s why we have online degree programs that you can earn a degree in less than one year… that’s why we have McDonald’s… that’s why we have airplanes… that’s why we have the internet…that’s why we have emails… that’s why we have instant messaging instead of telex… that’s why we have to Forget Your ex in 24hrs to help you heal your broken heart after a bad relationship.
Think about it, how many things do you have to do in your daily life, (you tell me). If on top of that you spend your time suffering for someone who you don’t even care about, that really doesn’t make sense. Does it?
Remember to Forget Your Ex in 24hrs will teach you step by step on how to stop your suffering after a bad break up and be happy again.