• Stop Punishing Yourself After Break Up

    I’m often asked, “What is the biggest problem to avoid during breakups. I always give them one answer, “you should avoid self-punishment” You know, this might be hard to believe but most people are deliberately punishing themselves without knowing. Now you may wonder how could this happen? You see, people punish themselves when they think that others are worthier than they are. When you believe that your ex is better than you are punishing yourself. When you keep calling your ex all day… all night, you are punishing yourself. Are you confused? Keep reading… It might be hard to believe but when you distrust your strength (by thinking you can’t…

  • Are You Still In Love With Your Ex Boyfriend, What Can You Do?

    I’m always asked what can I do after break up while still in love with him. My answer has always been this, what do you want to do? Ok, I know that is not the answer you’ve expected but it’s strange that someone you used to love so much, the one you gave everything, turns out to be the one hurts you the most. As they say, “love is a pain” there is always a price for it. It is easy when you aren’t in pain to accept that love is the pain but when you are in love with someone who can’t give you back. Can you imagine all…

  • Who Else Is Struggling After Break Up

    Many people are in a bad relationship without hope. Few people seem to get out of this trap but they don’t even realize that they do what they do to move on quickly. Are you one of those who struggles, trying to move on but can’t do it? Are you one of those who wishes if there is a technique to get over an ex quickly? If you say yes to any one of the above then this will be the most important message you will ever read. At this point, you must understand that reading all posts on forums about others who share their experience will not help. I…

  • The Best Way to Get Even With Your Ex After Break Up

    Let me start by telling you that I’m not talking about revenging your ex here or even hurting him or her. If that’s what in your mind then, you really need to read this article because when you finish you will realize, that’s not the best way to get even. Let me tell you this…First of all, you will feel a relief for a moment but the worse thing is, you will end up bad when you hurt him (her). Secondly, You might face some legal charges that could put you in jail. You will lose money (court fees) and you might lose your job if you have to stay…

  • Three Questions You Must Ask After Break Up

    It is important to know what to do (or at least to have an idea) in any stage of your life. You don’t have to know all the answers but you definitely you have to know where to find them. Now before we get into the meaty stuff, let me explain why it is important to ask yourself these questions. When you ask yourself a question your mind go to work to find the answer, it never stops working until it gets the answer. Haven’t you trying to remember something but when you tried to think about it nothing happens but out of a blue you just happen to remember…

  • How To Use Pain To Get Your Ex Boyfriend Back

    Yesterday I talked to Anita who got dumped by her ex-boyfriend a few days ago. she could not stand being lonely. It wasn’t easy for her. That was her first love everyone knows that first love is hard to forget. You just can’t let go because you have this belief that it going to last forever. So if you’ve ever faced this situation then you’ll understand how Anita’s feelings. Contrary to populous belief everyone after break up (girlfriend and boyfriend) faces some difficult time. They both have pain. You might think that your ex-boyfriend doesn’t feel pain after break up with you… that’s wrong. He is in pain too. You…

  • What Can You Do To Get Over an Ex Boyfriend

    Let me start this straight to point you to the right track. Most women (and girls) spend too much time mourning and cry about their ex-boyfriend, they think that will make things easy which is more unlikely. Here is the thing you should do to get over your ex-boyfriend. First of all, you should stop contacting him immediately. I mean every kind of contact you can think of… this includes text messaging, phone calls, emails, snail mail. This will surprise you but you should also stop sniffing around his house by during through his house to see if his car is parking in his garage. I know you might have…

  • Why Getting Your Ex Back Is The Wrong Idea

    You know in life there are things that you must face the fact that is not worth the effort and you are facing one of them. Think about it, when you were in a relationship you had everything in your hands to get things rights. It was much easier to convince your ex about how important the relationship is than to do it now. If you couldn’t do it back then, do you think you could right now when everything is not in your control? Think about it. I know it is hard to believe that things are not the same; you also don’t want to face the fact that…

  • Why It Is Not Healthy To Get Your Ex Back

    I’ve said this many times and I’m not the originator of it but the thing is your mind is the most important asset you’ve ever possessed in your life. If you abuse it (or you let others do it) then you are in big trouble Here is what I mean… When you don’t have any boundaries and let other people do whatever they want like saying bad words to you just manipulate you then you by default you let them destroy your self-esteem (you’re well being). When you let others manipulate you more than once then it is obvious that something is wrong with you. If you broke up because…

  • Why You Can’t Get Over Your Ex Girlfriend

    You see, there are a few numbers of humans who think that it is not easy to get over an ex-girlfriend. They will try to go back to that girl or just call her all day hoping that will convince her to rekindle the old fire which dies many years ago. First of all, you must understand that you have a problem if you can’t get over it. Do you know why? Because she is not living with you, she probably doesn’t even return your call, she might even already forget that you exist but here you are, thinking about all the wonderful things you did together many years ago.…