It is not a secret that most people would rather get back to their ex than move one. I’m not sure if it is because of pain or lack of confidence but it surprises me that almost everyone comes to ask for a magic formula on how to get back to the relationship which isn’t working anymore.
Most people search online to find that one secret that will magically bring that lost love home. I’m sure since you are reading this right now there are a lot of lies that you’ve found out there that. If you haven’t realized any of them, here are the big three.
It is Easy to Get Your Ex Back.
This is totally wrong and here is why. To convince someone who is already fade up with you is not easy especially in a relationship where you have to prove yourself hard to change your ex belief about you. It rarely works because the change is almost a chemical one. (meaning you will never go back to the original passion).
By the way, do you know why the first impression last forever? It is because people tend to remember things that stand out, those that are different from others. So you might have done a lot of good things in a relationship but it is only one thing… which is different… which angered your ex. That new thing summarizes everything about you.
To come clean you have to really do your homework something that a lot of people are not willing to do. Even if you are able to get back chances are that you will break up sooner or later if you do (JUST) one mistake.
Your Ex Is The One.
You’ve read books, you’ve watched movies about “the one”… a person that you are meant to be. Acceding to this belief, there is only one person on this planet that was created for you…It’s like when you build your own house with all the features that you alone want and nobody else can live in that house except you. You are the only person who can fulfill the needs of this person.
Well let’s see if this old belief is true, you have to remember that everyone is unique (you can’t deny that because our DNA is unique) and we are not equal in our thoughts, beliefs, genes, the way we walk, talks and just about everything we do. This is the reason why actors put a lot of effort when they rehearsal for the new movie.
This means that quality that you are attracted according to your definition of a good quality is very different from others. Having said that there are a lot of good qualities of your ex that you’ve always hate.
This means that there are many people out there that have the quality that you will love, so this thing of the one is a bull crap.
I Won’t Get Anyone Like My Ex
Let me tell you this, as long as you breathe and are on this planet then you can find someone you love. your ex is not perfect… (I think you’ve already realized that) and is not the only one that can make you happy. Get over that and move on.
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